I am a boy from Sutton Ma. I am 23
years old. I worked 4 years in the Navy. I have 3 siblings, who all still live
at home. 1 older sister, 1 younger brother, and 1 younger sister. The ages vary
from 25 to 15. When I got out of the navy I came home to start going to an academy
for being an aircraft mechanic. When I got home everyone was so happy to see
me. The only problem is, it didn't last. My older sister Liz runs the whole
house while she sits on her “ass” and does nothing. When I came back it was
good for about 3 weeks, then her inner bitch came out. My family are considered
the bible thumpers of the catholic religion. They are very religious and think
everyone else should be too. Liz is a person who need to be perfect and control
everything and freaks out if she cannot. I could live with that for a while
because during the weekends I would go down to the farm with a friend of mine
and cut wood and work on our amazing trucks. As I started to spend more time
away from the house, she started to get so much worse. Every time I’m at the
house I have to do every chore and it’s so annoying. It’s even worse now that I’m
home maybe once or twice a week because I’m always at my girlfriend’s house. When
I go home I try to just fall asleep and ignore them as much as I can. The family
is trying to treat me like a 17 years old boy. I am a 23 adult. I can make my
own choices and do not have to listen to my 25 year old sister as my mother!
There was
a party for my little sister’s conformation. There was an older friend of my
little sisters and friend of my brother. She hasn't been around for quite some
time or I just haven’t seen her because I was in the navy. The last time I saw her she was maybe 9 or 10
playing with her little puppy. I didn't like my sibling’s friends so I avoided
them. There was one time I was on leave at home and saw her but she had changed
so much I thought it was someone else. Apparently
I was wrong. So during this party she was huddled in the corner so I went up to
her and started talking to her. She was shy at first which is normal for her,
but then we started talking about the things we liked and 6 hours later we were
great friends. Over the next couple of weeks we would hang out and talk more to
get to know each other. After about a month I asked her to be my girlfriend. We
have been going strong for about 3 months now and I feel like I could spend the
rest of my life with her. Even though she is only 18 she seems more mature then
some of the 25 year olds I know. She can understand and have fun better than
anyone I know. She also has a strong passion for horses that I love. She looks absolutely
beautiful when she’s on and off her horse. I hope that everything goes well and
we can stay together for the rest of our lives.
